When they were released, they went to their friends and
reported what the chief priests and the elders had said to them. And when they
heard it, they lifted their voices together to God and said, “Sovereign Lord,
who made the heaven and the earth and the sea and everything in them, who
through the mouth of our father David, your servant, said by the Holy Spirit,
“‘Why did the Gentiles rage, and the peoples plot in vain? The kings of the
earth set themselves, and the rulers were gathered together, against the Lord
and against his Anointed’— for truly in this city there were gathered together
against your holy servant Jesus, whom you anointed, both Herod and Pontius
Pilate, along with the Gentiles and the peoples of Israel, to do whatever your
hand and your plan had predestined to take place. And now, Lord, look upon
their threats and grant to your servants to continue to speak your word with
all boldness, while you stretch out your hand to heal, and signs and wonders
are performed through the name of your holy servant Jesus.” And when they had
prayed, the place in which they were gathered together was shaken, and they
were all filled with the Holy Spirit and continued to speak the word of God
with boldness. (Act 4:23-31)
“When they were released, they went to their friends.” This
line keeps coming back to me. It strikes me that Luke says they went to their
friends. This was the relationship Peter and John had with this first
congregation. They were friends. I guess it strikes me because when dealing
with pastoral ministry it seems this is one of the biggest pitfalls. Pastors
are often cautioned against developing friendships in a congregation.
Familiarity breeds contempt they say. I suppose I understand that if you are an
officer in the Prussian military. But it strikes me as odd, when Christ would
call his disciples his brothers and his friends. People tell you to develop
friendships outside of the congregation, and that is fine too. No reason why
your friendships should be limited to your congregation. I dare say you would
be hard pressed to do any sort of evangelism if you weren’t cultivating
friendships outside the congregation. But at the same time, I find it easier to
develop friendships with those who share my beliefs.
Being a pastor is more than a job. It easily consumes your whole life. And to be
honest, you wouldn’t become a pastor if your faith hadn’t already consumed your
whole life. At least that is where most pastors start out, and I think for most
where they end. But once you have those hands laid on you, you are a pastor
24/7, until you check out and even then… a retired pastor, still a pastor. You
go on vacation and the people at the dinner table on the cruise ship are going
to have you talking shop in no time. But you are still a human and like others,
you need friends. Inside or outside the congregation. And it is natural that
you are going to be closer to some than you are to others. This is true of
everyone in the congregation. They have their own relationships.
But that ministry tends to consume your whole life that is a
hard thing. I read an article the other day talking about the pitfalls in
ministry. That only 1 in twenty who start ever retire. Only twenty percent of
all pastors a content in the ministry. 1,500 pastors drop out of the ministry
every month citing burnout and contention in their congregations. Most don’t
actually last five years in the ministry. It seems like an easy job. It isn’t
physically demanding which is part of the reason pastors tend to have
waistlines not betraying a disciplined body marked by fasting… But it can take
a toll on a person both mentally and spiritually. Yeah, spiritually. I wonder
at times how many pastors actually believe in Christ after five years in the
ministry. Those pastors that drop out of the ministry, how many of them do you
think maintain the faith, easily find a place in the pew at another
congregation on Sunday morning. Christ
knew what he was saying when he talked about putting the hand to the plow and
counting the cost. There is a lot of wisdom in not letting the neophytes, new
believers go into pastoral ministry. It shouldn’t be something decided over the
weekend at youth camp when all the girls are fawning over the young youth
pastor with the guitar.
It can be an incredibly discouraging occupation. No, perhaps
you won’t experience the same as the apostles standing before the Sanhedrin and
being threatened life and limb. No, for us in the west it will be faint praise…
it will be silent rejection, it will be sharing the gospel time after time and
seeing no result. It will be seeing a new family start attending church
regularly, having all the kids be baptized, and then quit coming when football
starts never to return. It will be criticism over a sermon you slaved hours
over… not because of what it said, but what it didn’t say! It will be old
ladies at church who think they know your job better than you, and would rather
gossip than pray in their closets about their concerns. And then you are told
not to have any friends in the congregation…. No, that is where the disciples
were right. In their moment of discouragement they went and prayed with friends
that they would continue to speak God’s word with all boldness, because that is
what this job is about. It is to continue to speak God’s word with all boldness
despite whatever results we may or may not see. And this is why God gives us
friends. No one can be a Christian by themselves. To be a Christian is to be
part of a community of friends, of brothers and sisters incorporated into the
body of Christ. And this is true of the pastor too.
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